Women enjoy finding THEMSELVES sexy & attractive, and care more about personality traits of the guys, than they find the male body attractive in itself. Hence it does not matter how "hot" a guy is, it depends on his personality traits, and if "HE finds HER arousing & sexy": thats the most important part of female desire to feel sexy & wanted by the man who she is with. "women's sexual desire is narcissistic -- by the wish to be the object of erotic admiration and sexual need, more than finding the male body arousing."Dr.Chivers
For heterosexual women, looking at a naked man walking on the beach is about as exciting as looking at landscapes." Dr Merideth Chivers female sexuality researcher
but even this quate women dont agree with because i saw in a forum most girls say comments such like :
- "True landscapes are prettier"
- "men bodies eww"
-"men are visual but women are emotional...etc"
- "The quote is funny and yes we look at naked men on a beach like a landscape but hey landscapes can be beautiful so we admire (NOT DESIRE)the beauty in those men and desire they would look at us...."
- "because, what is sexy to women is not a man's body, it is his personality"
- " i find seeing another hot naked woman more sexy , desirable and arousing than seeing a naked guy even if he is slim or mascular or handsome ...etc"
All these answers were from women on forums
We know for sure if it was an attractive naked woman walking on the beach heterosexual men would be aroused, but unfortunately for men, the reverse is not true. Hence female strip clubs outnumber male ones, and the majority of male ones are targeted at gay men and same also porn even little porn which focus on male body is targeted to gays not women... most women find male strippers repulsive & funny rather than arousing. ....isnt women's sexual desire narcissistic? , Isnt sex very unfair on heterosexual men?
also another thing i dont understand about women , if women desire is based on personality and romance and how man treats and love her and care about her not about desire to his body and male physical features, so does that mean that woman can desire any person sexually because of his personality and his caring regardless his look or even his gender?
For heterosexual women, looking at a naked man walking on the beach is about as exciting as looking at landscapes." Dr Merideth Chivers female sexuality researcher
but even this quate women dont agree with because i saw in a forum most girls say comments such like :
- "True landscapes are prettier"
- "men bodies eww"
-"men are visual but women are emotional...etc"
- "The quote is funny and yes we look at naked men on a beach like a landscape but hey landscapes can be beautiful so we admire (NOT DESIRE)the beauty in those men and desire they would look at us...."
- "because, what is sexy to women is not a man's body, it is his personality"
- " i find seeing another hot naked woman more sexy , desirable and arousing than seeing a naked guy even if he is slim or mascular or handsome ...etc"
All these answers were from women on forums
We know for sure if it was an attractive naked woman walking on the beach heterosexual men would be aroused, but unfortunately for men, the reverse is not true. Hence female strip clubs outnumber male ones, and the majority of male ones are targeted at gay men and same also porn even little porn which focus on male body is targeted to gays not women... most women find male strippers repulsive & funny rather than arousing. ....isnt women's sexual desire narcissistic? , Isnt sex very unfair on heterosexual men?
also another thing i dont understand about women , if women desire is based on personality and romance and how man treats and love her and care about her not about desire to his body and male physical features, so does that mean that woman can desire any person sexually because of his personality and his caring regardless his look or even his gender?