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TheKuchikiDuchess
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i am girl who is Junior in my high school as of now and my parent beat me at times...
i was just wondering...if...um....well is this abuse or is it just a cultural thing...
i am an indian (not native american) and in india kids get beat up all the time....but when i spoke to a good friend of mine.....well she says that this isn't normal...
she is also asian and has lived with her fair share of domestic household distress....
but please allow me to elaborate...
for example my mother beats me way more frequently then my father....and
often she beats me because i have answered back....
i guess that seems fine because i think i deserve it when i am being rude...but at times...well all the time really i am mentally forced(and physically i guess at this point) to suppress my opinion and choice.
if i were to stand up for myself or rebut any false accusations on my character its immediate result is a solid thrashing and beating...
i have been beaten in front of my older brother a lot of the times...he used to be beaten but they stopped when he was about 14 years old i guess because he was a growing up boy....but he is incapable of doing anything frankly so he just feels helpless and tormented....
i have been beaten in front of my grandparents and a relative i have never met...
hands belts slipper and sticks are the mediums through which i am punished with....as well as calling me words like....well...the worst a girl can be called....my character is defamed all the time....
if i were to strike a friendship with a guy then apparently that means im sleeping with him....if i am not to follow any orders directly regardless of there practicality...i am threatened...verbally...of course...
both my parents have called me foulest of things...like a b*tch and wh*re....despite the fact i have never displayed any remote behavior related to these....titles....if that's what they can be called...
im not saying that physical violence occurs every day...more like every fortnight or so....
but the verbal violence inconsistent...my simplest statement can get them to chafe me with their language...
i am not sure what this is....is it abuse....or is it just an indian thing....
because i thought its a good thing to stand up for oneself...and to be able add you point to discussions....
don't know....i am NRI (living abroad)....and its not a country like uk or the stated where solutions to such situations are easy...
so i ask you...
i was just wondering...if...um....well is this abuse or is it just a cultural thing...
i am an indian (not native american) and in india kids get beat up all the time....but when i spoke to a good friend of mine.....well she says that this isn't normal...
she is also asian and has lived with her fair share of domestic household distress....
but please allow me to elaborate...
for example my mother beats me way more frequently then my father....and
often she beats me because i have answered back....
i guess that seems fine because i think i deserve it when i am being rude...but at times...well all the time really i am mentally forced(and physically i guess at this point) to suppress my opinion and choice.
if i were to stand up for myself or rebut any false accusations on my character its immediate result is a solid thrashing and beating...
i have been beaten in front of my older brother a lot of the times...he used to be beaten but they stopped when he was about 14 years old i guess because he was a growing up boy....but he is incapable of doing anything frankly so he just feels helpless and tormented....
i have been beaten in front of my grandparents and a relative i have never met...
hands belts slipper and sticks are the mediums through which i am punished with....as well as calling me words like....well...the worst a girl can be called....my character is defamed all the time....
if i were to strike a friendship with a guy then apparently that means im sleeping with him....if i am not to follow any orders directly regardless of there practicality...i am threatened...verbally...of course...
both my parents have called me foulest of things...like a b*tch and wh*re....despite the fact i have never displayed any remote behavior related to these....titles....if that's what they can be called...
im not saying that physical violence occurs every day...more like every fortnight or so....
but the verbal violence inconsistent...my simplest statement can get them to chafe me with their language...
i am not sure what this is....is it abuse....or is it just an indian thing....
because i thought its a good thing to stand up for oneself...and to be able add you point to discussions....
don't know....i am NRI (living abroad)....and its not a country like uk or the stated where solutions to such situations are easy...
so i ask you...