I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years and am adjusting to the single life. My friend keeps pressuring me to just go out there and have fun, let loose and sleep with a guy (since its been so long). But for some reason I can't.
I don't like opening myself up (emotionally and physically) to people I hardly know. I don't want to have sex with someone unless I am in love with them or in a relationship. Is this wrong? Am I being too uptight? Should I just live life and enjoy my 20s? Idk maybe its just because I am so used to being in a relationship or im just old fashioned. But I dont want sex just for the sex. Id rather not have it. I want that commitment and to know I am the most special thing to the man I'm doing it with. I really respect myself and don't want to just give it up to anybody. I feel like they should work for it.
Let me know what you think. Because another side of me feels sexually frustrated and I'm like why not? Just feel torn.
I don't like opening myself up (emotionally and physically) to people I hardly know. I don't want to have sex with someone unless I am in love with them or in a relationship. Is this wrong? Am I being too uptight? Should I just live life and enjoy my 20s? Idk maybe its just because I am so used to being in a relationship or im just old fashioned. But I dont want sex just for the sex. Id rather not have it. I want that commitment and to know I am the most special thing to the man I'm doing it with. I really respect myself and don't want to just give it up to anybody. I feel like they should work for it.
Let me know what you think. Because another side of me feels sexually frustrated and I'm like why not? Just feel torn.