is this weird? or just not right? i don't like guys taking the next step, until I

J

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want to take it? ok so i noticed that when i talk to a guy and feelings are getting deeper, lets say he wants to call me baby or sweetie all the time..
if i don't feel right with it at the time, i'll tell him..
but here's the thing..
lets say after more time being spent together... I feel like calling him baby or sweetie all the time... then i'll start doing it and from that point on i don't mind if he does it to me also...

so this kind of situation, goes with Everything ...
first time having sex...
not unless I feel ok to do it,and like i even Want sex... will it happen...
first time kissing...
i need to be ok with it..

is this all messed up?? is it weird that the next steps don't occur unless I say they do, and When they can occur ???
 
Sounds like you need to relax a little bit, as you sound like a control freak. You aren't doing anything wrong, but you may want to let things go once in a while. Especially with the cute name calling.
 
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