Is this right (boy wants sex even though I am not going out with him)?

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Jessica

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Basically this guy I used to go out with is still hinting that he wants sex and it's making me feel uncomfortable but he gives me sweet talk at the same time so I think I should have sex with him. What's making me feel uncomfortable is the fact that:
1. I'm a virgin and it will hurt
2. I'm not going out with him and he doesn't want me to tell anyone about our foreplay
3. I feel he is taking advantage but he is using his disguises to make me think that he is not

Please could you give me some advice on this.. he is not a mean person but I feel he is putting underlying pressure on me. It is all he wants... he hardly ever talks to me and he says that he is bored... but he gets hard ons when he is around me and doesn't talk much.

Thanks for the advice.
I'm 16 and he is 18
 
no!first of all ur not going out with him.that is definitely not right.and if u guys got into a fight later on he COULD tell everyone about ur potenttial foreplay
 
Don't do anything you do want to do. It's pointless just to give in and have sex with a guy when it's meaningless sex. You and I both know that is all he wants, and he'll forget about you afterward. Don't be easy. At least be in a relationship and love someone before you give up your virginity. I know people say it doesn't matter, but it really does matter who you give it to. You'll remember it for the rest of your life.
 
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