Is this politeness or does she like me?

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Alex King

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Sorry about the re-post, I just wanted some second opinions. This has been bugging me for a bit. So about a week ago I got really sick from going overboard on a partyand got sick. A day later the girl talked to me on facebook chat and asked how I was doing and included a lot of :Ps and a lot of questions about it. I hardly talk to this girl but if I do she pays attention and usually has a small smile on her face and I think there may be a few other signs but not sure. She was the only girl to ask how I was feeling but several other guys did. When I got back to school (missed a week due to an event) I heard her and her friend say my name, I don't know if it was because they saw me or not but anyways I heard them say it again as I came close but quietly and so I just looked at them and they asked me how I was after the party. As I walked away I thought I heard the girl I like say "I feel so sorry for him" was this because she felt bad that I was sick just because I was sick or for another reason. Also a lot of people there were sick so why would she ask me and no other girls did?

I also don`t know her too well, I`ve had a few classes with her in school, I`m 17, don`t have her phone number or MSN but had briefly talked to her before (I was nervous when I talked to her) So do you think was she just being polite or was there something else? Thanks.
I'm not friends with her, in fact we are prett much strangers who just see each other every day and talk on occasion, so if she doens't know me that much, why would she care?
 
If a girl talks to you out of nowhere and asks how you are, I'd say that's a sign she may be interested. If I saw a guy get sick at a party and I had no interest, I'd think to myself 'poor guy,' but I would go no further. I think the fact that she found out who you were (if she didn't know) and found you on Facebook and messaged YOU shows a good possibility she is interested.

As far as the smiley faces, I'd say it depends on her personality. If she is normally a really bubbly person and she uses smiley faces with other people, it may just be that it's how she is. But if it's out of the ordinary or more than normal, it may mean something. I use a TON of smileys with my boyfriend. I'll occasionally use them with other people, but far less frequently.

It's worth a shot to talk to her. Worse case scenario is she's not interested, in which case you move on. Good luck!
 
One of my close guy friends broke his collar bone recently. I don't like him that way, but I still said that I felt really sorry for him. It's just what girls think, it's their manner to be nice and feel sorry for people when they're hurt or not feeling well. I think she was just being polite.
 
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