Is this past tense or present?

'If you loved me as much as I loved you, we would never leave the bedroom. And where would that get us?'

Okay, I said that to my guy friend today just kidding around. He was like, 'Loved? So you don't love me anymore?' Then he said it was past tense. But just because I said 'loved', does that make it past tense?
 
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