Is this online chatting safe for me?

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Ok so i started this game name Meez, and seems to be really fun :) you can talk to people and hang out. well i met this one guy and we have been talking for about 4 days now. we talked for 4 hours two nights in a row! and we kinda are getting use to each other. and like each other, but nothing more then friends. he showed me his myspace, so i saw what he looks like, and i know where he is from. also i know he email and his cell #. and they are all the right things, no scam. i ended up calling him and we talked for a while. then i texted him around 12 this morning and talked until like 3. lol

anyway during the txt he said my picture was beautiful, and im all he wants right now, and that he is glad he met me. im kinda flirting with him when he flirts with me and i like it.Lol. who wouldn't?


but the thing is my best friend, hates the fact that i have lengthy convos with people online that i dont know, and probably never meet. she says it is stupid.
i didnt give him my phone number or my email. but he seems like a normal teenage guy and i have the feeling that he is, but my friend will never see my side. so does he sound like a stalker guy, that will hurt my feelings or a regular teenage guy?
please give your opinion and advice. thanks so much.... i need it badly!!! is my friend right???
 
I think your friend needs to realize that this is a hobby you enjoy. Now I may be wrong...if you are ditching your friend or spending too much time chatting online, then it might be an issue and I could see her side a bit more clearly. But if your friend enjoys playing basketball, and you enjoy chatting....it's all just a hobby. People chat because people get bored. If this friend is a really good one, then I suggest not stomping on her feelings and having a bit of a sit down talk. Let her voice what she thinks should be done....voice your own...then come to a decision. I'm sure she just wants to know you are hearing her advice, and is probably worried about you. If she is not worried about you, and does in fact just think it is "stupid" then it is her problem not everyone is the same.
 
I've been talking to a few people i met online for the past 4ish years, and they've all been normal teenagers. My mom, however, still thinks otherwise.. You can't change people's opinion that they're bad. But that guy's probably a normal teenager.
 
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