Is this normal or weird?

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Lollipop

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I've been talking to this one guy lately i met about 2 weeks ago and *every* single day since then, he has texted me. At first i thought it was so cute and flattering. but as a few days went by i kind of got a little tired of it..i would still text him back just not as quick or as often. but we also talk on the phone, which is good, too. but we mostly text esp. when we're to busy to talk. he constantly texts me. he even started texting me good morning & good nite & asks a lot of sexual/personal/relationship questions. he already told me he liked me and asked for some pics of my face and/or body (and im only 17 and he's 19 in college)...

today my mom told me to stop texting because im WAY over my limit of 500 texts -- im at like 958 thanks to him texting me so much..so now i cant text until my cycle is over which is in a few days. but today the guy texted me and of course i cant text back, so i ignored it. he sent a duplicate message about 5 mins later...& then about 30 mins later sent a text that said "u mad at me?" and then he called but i didn't answer. he left a message saying that it was him and he was just trying to talk...then about 10 mins later sent a text that said "well idk what i did but i wish i could talk to u"

Now...if we were in a serious relationship & had an argument i could understand why he wants to talk. but we've only known each other for about 2 wks so why is he so...idk, attached? Should I be concerned or is this normal?
 
I dont think hes to attached hes just trying to show you that hes attracted to you,,, i bet if he didnt hit u up as much as he does you will be mad hes just trying to get to know you obviously you interest him so explain the whole text situation and he is not weird or attached and if u dont like him than tel him now that he dont interest you
 
Girl, it sounds like you have a lonely puppy on your hands! Seriously, he is waaay too attached which means he either a) has NO friends or b)had toooo much time on his hands! I'm not saying that he doesn't like you, but if I were you, I wouldn't pursue a relationship with him because he will be too attached. I've been down that road before and I thought I was attached....HA! He is probably a "momma's boy" too. Because guys that are spoiled by their moms tend to be extremely clingy toward girls that they like. But they don't realize that they will only push certain types of people away. So, you should either drop him or if you want him to stick around just be honest with him and tell him to slow down on the texts. You could just tell a partial lie and tell him you have a smaller package and this time if you go over your mom said she will take your phone. He definitely doesn't want that!
 
dont date him! he sounds like a creep. thats not normal wen boys do that tome i say i wasnt mad i just have a life! and if they really anoy me say u dontwant to tx now cus ur getting over ur ex bf ( even if its a lie) and never send any sexual pics of u EVER! hope i helped and good luck
-jena
 
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