Is this normal for a guy during sex?

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Last night, I had sex for the first time in a year and a half. He was only my third guy to sleep with, and I'm not even sure if it actually counted as sex because of what happened. He couldn't get it in right(which I understand because I was tight) but then he couldn't stay hard. I know that happens to, but instead of trying until he got it right (like the other guys I've experienced) he just fell asleep. The next morning we woke up and he didn't even say anything about it, or want to try again. I was confused and ashamed. I rushed him out the door and didn't kiss him or anything. I've NEVER had that problem before, the other guys I was with would have kept trying or did some foreplay or something..But it was like sex wasn't really important to him, which was weird because he acted like he was really into me and he wanted it, but when he finally got it, he didn't take advantage of it!

What the hell is wrong with him?
NO, like I said, all the other guys I was with beat it up all night.
& he was not on drugs or drinking.
 
Sex is very hard for a man because we want to be pleasing to women. And if something goes wrong we really take it to heart. Try asking him to try other sexual things, foreplay for example, to get him going. No woman is too tight if he can get hard enough!
 
Well I don't want to sound rude but if this has happened to you before with other guys then maybe the problem is you?
I mean young guys don't usually have this problem unless they are sick, drunk or on drugs or really really nervous
but if it's happened to you with other guys too then that's not normal
he probably just left all fast b/c he was ashamed tho, guys don't like feeling like they can't get it up
but maybe you should ask the guy
 
he was prolly nervous and didnt know what to do.. if you like him talk to him about it... he may have told you he wasnt a virgin but may actually be a virgin.
 
he probably hasn't had Alto of partners either, and got scared when things didn't go according to plan....talk to him about it...
 
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