Is this cheating? My wife has be on the phone or internet talking to a male

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Janet W

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Wow, she has fallen for this other guy. I don't know if they've slept together but any time a person is talking on the phone to the extent that your wife has been it's because there is a mutual emotional attachment. Why didn't this bother you?

As far as how long do you wait. I would wait until the divorce is final because that's just the kind of person I am. I am honorable and take my commitments very seriously.
 
friend who is getting divorced.? She has been talking to him at least an hour every night. I don't think there was anything physical at first,because he was out of state, but last week he came back here and she asked if she could have lunch with him. I said she could because she assured me they were only friends ,and she was just helping him talk about his feelings from his break up. they went to lunch on Tuesday, then on Thursday she tells me SHE wants US to divorce, but it has nothing to do with him, and she didn't sleep with him. am i getting played for a chump?

Also. how long should I wait before I hook up with somebody. until after the paper work all goes through or just until we are living separately?
 
Sounds like they were talking not only about his divorce, but her upcoming divorce. Sounds like they are more than friends. Why don't you wait a bit before you decide to go chasing tail. Didn't you just find this out? You don't sound very concerned about your marriage if that is what you are thinking about already.
 
She is a married woman. If she wants to console and advise a divorcing man why not take her hubby along. Just proper ettiquette.
 
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