Is this a valid reason to hate someone?

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My roommate and I were really good friends and we moved to a different college town together this fall, I didn't know it when we moved but he is very anal about cleaning and I do my best to keep the place clean. We would party with the rest of our friends every weekend and I thought everything was going ok till I found some messgaes about me on facebook.The best story I got was he hates me now because I'm messy, I'm really not that bad, if there are dirty dishes they're always his and if I leave a mess out at night I clean it right away in the morning, is this a valid reason to burn a friendship? I would like to hear from the anal cleaning people out there (no offence intended).
 
I'm not a clean freak but i don't think why that would be a good reason to hate somebody. If he hated you being dirty or whatever he should straight up and told you not have to write it on face book like a little child.
 
What did the messages on facebook say? Why don't you ask him about it.
 
Its really not, im a clean freak, when i go to friends houses ill literally start cleaning their room and going through their things to throw out...im horrible like that, but i would never ruin a friendship over it.Just ask him if its true and hear him out. Tel him you think his reasoning is unfair and you want to conpramise, maybe make a list of everything to do each day for both of you, like what to clean for example ;) Also, make sure if you see something laying around, to pick it up. It isnt a good reason to ruin a friendship, but sadly, it just might if you dont talk to him
 
well..i am not one of those "anal cleaning person"...but i feel that it is not a valid reason to burn any friendship, afterall everyoine's not the same. U seem not that messy to me as you lean up things sooner or later. Maybe he should accept the fact that everyone's not a cleanliness freak.
 
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