Why would a single woman talk for 8 months to me over e-mail, messaging, give me her phone number, talk to me over phone and also tell me what she's doing, where she's going with her girlfriends? Laugh at my jokes, tease me, allow me to tell her sweet names, allow me to touch her arm,kiss her, kiss me back, touch her everywhere, go out with me 5 times, look at me like I'm the only one in the world........
Then after a week of normal conversation and planing next date she tells me that she has NO FEELINGS for me, and wishes she would fall in love with me.
And that after the date where we kissed for the first time.
Is it possible that she is afraid of relationship?
Two years ago she came out of 9 year relationship. He cheated on her.
And also at that time her father got sick of cancer and died about a year ago.
She also mentioned a couple of times that all men are the same.
She said that we can stay in contact. And it doesn't bother her, for us to meet again. We still talk, text, email. We've even been on a date since and it was like nothing happened before.
Kisses, touching, laughing, just normal again.
But a week later she decides not to allow me to kiss her on a date.
She said because nothing has changed yet for her.
She told me that she feels pressured by me. I know I can be a bit overwhelmed sometimes.
We're both 29 going on 30. And we've been schoolmates. So we know each other for about 20 years, but lost contact after school.
Then after a week of normal conversation and planing next date she tells me that she has NO FEELINGS for me, and wishes she would fall in love with me.
And that after the date where we kissed for the first time.
Is it possible that she is afraid of relationship?
Two years ago she came out of 9 year relationship. He cheated on her.
And also at that time her father got sick of cancer and died about a year ago.
She also mentioned a couple of times that all men are the same.
She said that we can stay in contact. And it doesn't bother her, for us to meet again. We still talk, text, email. We've even been on a date since and it was like nothing happened before.
Kisses, touching, laughing, just normal again.
But a week later she decides not to allow me to kiss her on a date.
She said because nothing has changed yet for her.
She told me that she feels pressured by me. I know I can be a bit overwhelmed sometimes.
We're both 29 going on 30. And we've been schoolmates. So we know each other for about 20 years, but lost contact after school.