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...doesn't like like you back? I can't stop thinking about her. She's really, really beautiful - and she's smart, funny, charming, and just amazing. I've liked her from the moment I first saw her two years ago. I talk to her online on a semi-regular basis (although I'm the one who instigates the conversation) and she's always very polite and usually responds (unless of course she's too lazy or sees no point). Even though some people have been telling me that it's not necessarily hopeless, I know better. If I asked her out in front of her friends, she would lie and say she's dating someone. If I asked her out while she's alone, she would be very blunt and say that she's not attracted to me that way. Either way, the answer will be no. There are no signs to suggest that she would want to date me. Every time I see her in the halls with her friends or when I see her pics online, I automatically feel really alone and sad. I get super anxious, paranoid, and at times I even act on impulse. Just logging into Facebook is enough to give me butterflies. I know she doesn't have the same regard for me as she does for other people, and that will never change because she has absolutely no interest in getting to know me better. She knows I like her, it's really obvious. I can't hide my feelings when they're so strong. I've been avoiding rejection for a long time, but now I think it may be better than putting myself through this despair.
Should I bother admitting this to her? How should I go about doing it? How would you feel if a guy you have absolutely no interest in whatsoever admitted that they find you really beautiful?
By the way, if you're just answering to tell me how creepy this question makes me sound - please don't bother. I'd prefer a serious answer because this is such an issue for me.
Should I bother admitting this to her? How should I go about doing it? How would you feel if a guy you have absolutely no interest in whatsoever admitted that they find you really beautiful?
By the way, if you're just answering to tell me how creepy this question makes me sound - please don't bother. I'd prefer a serious answer because this is such an issue for me.