My kinda of boyfriend doesn't want a relationship status as he doesn't want to commit. He says he doesn't want to commit cause he "doesn't think of other people enough to commit to them" What exactly does this mean... He hasn't got anyone else on the go I know for a fact as I'm with him all the time. But why does he not want to be in a relationship..?? Every time I talk about stuff like this he kinda clams up and ignores me until i quit asking. We're amazingly happy until i bring up the relationship talk. Am i wasting my time with him or should I just shut my mouth..??
Is the "relationship status" that important if you love someone?
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Obviously being in a relationship is very important to you and it is to most girls. Its concerning your boyfriend or guy your seeing said he '"doesn't think of other people enough to commit to them".
There is a lot of things wrong with that statement.. One, he is telling you flat out he isn't interested in commitment and unless your okay with the fact that he doesn't see you as his girlfriend then you should probably start looking into moving on. He is telling you he doesn't think about you enough to commit to you.. and he said it in a generalized way as in... when it comes to people as a whole. Which means at the moment he is fair game for any woman that wants him.
A man thats non-committed can quite literally do as he pleases. He can sleep with other women and have the rights to hurt you over and over again.
Sweetie, if your looking for a man that will commit to you and give you the respect and love you deserve, this guy isn't the one. It sounds like he just using you.
And as to your direct question, if your guy really loved you he would want others to know you two were exclusive. Just a thought.
Its all up to you now. Good luck
There is a lot of things wrong with that statement.. One, he is telling you flat out he isn't interested in commitment and unless your okay with the fact that he doesn't see you as his girlfriend then you should probably start looking into moving on. He is telling you he doesn't think about you enough to commit to you.. and he said it in a generalized way as in... when it comes to people as a whole. Which means at the moment he is fair game for any woman that wants him.
A man thats non-committed can quite literally do as he pleases. He can sleep with other women and have the rights to hurt you over and over again.
Sweetie, if your looking for a man that will commit to you and give you the respect and love you deserve, this guy isn't the one. It sounds like he just using you.
And as to your direct question, if your guy really loved you he would want others to know you two were exclusive. Just a thought.
Its all up to you now. Good luck
When I was in college I had a girlfriend for over a year that I was with all the time too and would
not commit to her ~ since we were always dating exclusively ~ I just took her for granted.
I don't think your friend is taking you for granted ~ Maybe he is just cautious of spoiling a good thing.
I finally broke up with this girl ~ not because she did anything wrong but because I found someone
new~ and this was right before I went into the military...but the second gal dropped me while I was
in basic training ~
Life happens~ don't take anything for granted...maybe you are just too available to this guy exclusively and he is taking you a tad for granted or maybe he thinks differently then you do.
not commit to her ~ since we were always dating exclusively ~ I just took her for granted.
I don't think your friend is taking you for granted ~ Maybe he is just cautious of spoiling a good thing.
I finally broke up with this girl ~ not because she did anything wrong but because I found someone
new~ and this was right before I went into the military...but the second gal dropped me while I was
in basic training ~
Life happens~ don't take anything for granted...maybe you are just too available to this guy exclusively and he is taking you a tad for granted or maybe he thinks differently then you do.