Is something wrong with me? Is this weird?

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I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year, and I love him a lot, so very, very much. I'm so happy that we're together and I don't want us to break up, but for some reason, because I miss him so, so terribly (he's in a different town for the holidays), I've thought about breaking up just so that I don't have to miss him. Is that weird?

I would be devastated if we broke up, but I hate missing him. It's a terrible and nauseating feeling. Is something wrong with me?
I don't have a phone temporarily, so he can't text me multiple times a day or call me like he would have if I had one.
 
YOUR IN LOVE... don't hide your feelings for him.+ hes away for the holidays its not like hes moving in somewhere else .. you'll get pass this point and when he gets back sohw him how much you missed him and it will soon all be worth it.. dumping him would make you upset and him upset .. you can't just throw away a year of a [from what you said] solid relationship.
 
If i were you i wouldnt break up with him over winter break just cause you hate missing him. every girl hates missing their boyfriend. He's gonna come baq. so just wait a while. You won't have to think about breaking up with him. He'll be next to you soon or later. Cause trust me my friend always feels like then when she can't see her man and she can wait. WAIT! Then be happy when he comes back.
 
not really weird; i mean almost everyone goes through something like that when they really like someone. try to get a little less attached though. its cool that you care so much but its on the verge of obsessive and the only problem with that is that if/when you do break up its gonna be 1000x worse.
 
that is a horrivble idea.
You will just miss him all
the time even when he is back
baaad lol
really that wont fix anything
 
That's not really that strange. I don't think there's anything wrong with you.
It just means that you love him a lot, and that you are very attached to him.
If you really feel uncomfortable about missing him so much, try a little bit of counseling.
Hope I helped!
 
That is weird. You just need to bare with missing him for a few days, maybe a couple of weeks at the most, then he'll be back with you. Don't sweat it. Breaking up with him is something you really don't want to do, so get that thought out of your head. Trust. ';-()
 
There's nothing wrong with you. It's kind of like you're trying to keep your self from being hurt for some reason.

Don't break up with him. I'm sure you'll regret it it you did. Just keep counting down the days til he comes back.
 
girl can't ya emial him or use a different phone to call him? and DO NOT break up with him, he will be home soon and b/c you two missed eachother so much, the time you have together will be valued higher :) it will work out, my ex boyfriend dumped me 2 weeks and i miss him terribly so breakiign up with him would suck lol just try to get in cantact with him, you will calm down :)
 
Not really. I'm in a long distance relationship because my bf convinced me it would work. And it does. But i hate not being able to see him whenever I want to and so have suggested to him several times that we should just break up cos of the missing him. But he thinks I'm being silly. And the more we miss each other, the more we will appreciate each other and love each other.
 
Don't break up with him so you won't miss him...then you will miss him even when he is near you.
 
Don't break up with him unless you have a legit reason. You may regret it later if you do. If he is emotionally/physically abusive to you, then break up. If not, don't let a good thing go. You can miss him, but you have to remember who you are an enjoy the moments you have to yourself.
 
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