Is she ready for sex? or is this just the first step?

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Durk

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last night, i got a little more intimate with my girlfriend while making out with her. usually i rest my hands on her hips or place them on the back of her neck while we kiss, but last night i did a little exploring. i started to put my hands on her butt and gently squeezed them and she allowed it and seem to really enjoyed it (she started to kiss me harder and more intense with the tongue). then i started to move my hand underneith her shirt starting from the waist, moving my hand up her back from under her shirt. she seemed to really enjoy this as well and did not stop me. i left my hands on her back for awhile and took my hands out of her shirt and began to feel her breast from the outside of her shirt and she liked this as well and did not tell me to stop.

we were sitting down on her couch kissing, and after i did all this she sat on my lap to start kissing me. now this all seemed like a clear sign to me that she wanted more than just kissing, but i didn't escalate any further. i didn't touch her breast from under her shirt or escalate any further because a couple weeks earlier she told me she wanted to wait a long time before we had sex. and by long time she was hinting at a couple months. i checked her myspace profile today and it said she had the best night of her entire life last night with me. now thats what got me to ask the question. even though i didn't have sex with her she seemed to really love what we did. do you think she is ready for sex and happy that we came close to having it? or is she just happy that we have reached a new comfort level in our relationship?
 
from my expirance she is happy with ur new level but if i were you i would talk to her about it and get her take on it. if sne is ready and really wants to she will tell you
 
ask her straight up i think she likes new things every tym do somtin dif touch her legs feet moostly anythink u cn touch but talk to her nd tell her first if she dosnt like it tell her to tell u k
hope it helps hay cn u help me with som of my questions to coz frm wat i read uv probably got some experiance?
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just give her a little time
what she is doing is trying
to do new things and have some
fun what u can try to do is
when ur kissing her do always
the same things u did to her that
night so that she can get used to it
and when she is ready u will know
well because she wants to have more
well good luck with that
and I hope everything goes well
 
i think she is loving how much pleasure and fun shes having beside sex. therefore carry on lol!!! however sex, wait till she tells u. (its called respecting, which u were doing in the first place...sweet!) go further as u want, jst not sex...sorry to dissapoint loL! hope i helped! x
 
If you haven't even fingered her yet you aren't anywhere near having sex. You have to take steps towards sex. Making out with some groping isn't enough to say she's ready. And if you can't even talk to her about it and you have to ask us on here, obviously you aren't at the comfort level that you need to have sex. Talk to her about how far she wants to go. Maybe she'd like giving you a handjob or you fingering her. If she says she'd like to go further, next time your together try touching her down there and unbuttoning her jeans, NOT YOURS. If she tries to stop you, say "I want to finger you, and I'll stop if you want me too, but I'm not trying to have sex." If she says stop, STOP. Don't push her. She'll resent you if you take advantage of her when she's in the moment. Remember, you have to take steps up to sex.
 
she was just in the mood but next time she does that be like let me get a condom or just start playing with her nipples and sucking on it and she will go with it
 
Okay I think ur doing the right thing with her taking it slow and going with the flow! Cuz if you wasnt she would stop you! But maybe she is a lil nervous so next time do all these things and then maybe take off her shirt and start slowly undressing each other and get the train rolling tooooooooooot toooooooooooooootttttttttttt!!
 
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