Is she not having sex with her husband?

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4 years friends, she's married, i'm not, she pursued me, we hooked up, took a break so she could work on the marriage, she decided she wants me more than him. A year ago she said she hates when he touches her. About a month later she commented towards the fact that she isn't having sex with him. She avoids him by sleeping with her daughters. She is sticking to this story that she isn't having sex with him, and not even sleeping with him. They've been married 8 years, have 2 kids, and apparently no sex for a year. Also, he is very civil with her, amazingly! Is this something that happens ever? Does anyone know of married people not sharing a bed or having sex for a year without just getting divorced? And does this mean a divorce is in the near future? It doesn't matter if i beleive her or not, i just wanna know if this is something that could be true.
 
What really matters here is that you are ruining her chances for a happy marriage. If she wanted to be divorced, she would be. Leave her alone, and let her family be happy.
 
mm yeah.
my parents
HAH
seriously though... she probably doesn't want to hurt her kids, little does she realize she'll be hurting them more in the long run leading her life this way
 
I highly doubt it. Highly.

Does it sound correct to you that a man who is married would go without sex from his perfectly capable of having sex wife...and be okay with it?

If she were going to divorce him for you, she would have done it already. People who are having affairs ALWAYS have a reason why they can't leave their spouse just yet. They always have an excuse and it's never a good one if you really think about it.
 
There are married individuals who do not have sex with one another, sometimes by mutual understanding and sometimes otherwise. That being said, however, I really do not feel that there is enough of a basis for you to believe anything this female says about anything. I say this because I truly feel that THIS ONE simply wants to have her cake and eat it too; and she is essentially stringing you along.
 
Possibly. Everything you've mentioned shows she's fed up with her marriage. I still don't know about the divorce, though. Many women will utter tons of things about how their husband is vermin or things of that sort, but they would just stay in the marriage regardless. That's the only grey area, but I don't think she's doing anything with her husband.

That's all you, bro. Cool.
 
Anything is possible. I knew a couple who had separate rooms for almost ten years (at that time). Divorce wasn't an option in their culture and there were no 'affairs' either. It was purely for economic reasons that they shared the same house.
 
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