so the story goes like this...
I met this girl who I'm really attracted to. She really makes my day a little brighter and makes me feel happy overall. Ive known her about 3 weeks now. I knew initially she was into me for a fact. The way she acted towards me when we hang out and the fact that her roommate told me she was into me also. Recently however she's been talking to me a lot less. She would usually text me first and ask if I wanted to hang out and it gradually ended up with us both texting equally then just to me initially starting the texts. I asked her if she would like to go out to eat and her response was, "I just ate.....Sorry!".... the next night I ask her if she wanted to hang out and her response was, "I already made plans!.....Sorry!" Then the next day we didn't talk at all.
What makes me so confused is that fact if she's playing hard to get or she lost interest. Every time we were together everything was fine. We made each other laugh, and had a good time, and showed deep interest in one another. The more we hung out the more we were emotionally attached. Then all of a sudden she closes the gate and responded twice to me that she couldn't hang out on the weekend, which didn't make sense since we hung out on the weekday which was difficult with school and all. It made me think if I did anything to upset her, but I'm positive I didn't do anything to upset her in any way. Did she just loose interest? She told me how she got out of a 3 year relationship with her Ex last August which was a difficult time for her and she told me that I was the first guy she's "hooked up" with since her ex. So whats the catch? How do I approach this situation? Should I ask her if there's something up? or wait until she texts or calls me back?
I met this girl who I'm really attracted to. She really makes my day a little brighter and makes me feel happy overall. Ive known her about 3 weeks now. I knew initially she was into me for a fact. The way she acted towards me when we hang out and the fact that her roommate told me she was into me also. Recently however she's been talking to me a lot less. She would usually text me first and ask if I wanted to hang out and it gradually ended up with us both texting equally then just to me initially starting the texts. I asked her if she would like to go out to eat and her response was, "I just ate.....Sorry!".... the next night I ask her if she wanted to hang out and her response was, "I already made plans!.....Sorry!" Then the next day we didn't talk at all.
What makes me so confused is that fact if she's playing hard to get or she lost interest. Every time we were together everything was fine. We made each other laugh, and had a good time, and showed deep interest in one another. The more we hung out the more we were emotionally attached. Then all of a sudden she closes the gate and responded twice to me that she couldn't hang out on the weekend, which didn't make sense since we hung out on the weekday which was difficult with school and all. It made me think if I did anything to upset her, but I'm positive I didn't do anything to upset her in any way. Did she just loose interest? She told me how she got out of a 3 year relationship with her Ex last August which was a difficult time for her and she told me that I was the first guy she's "hooked up" with since her ex. So whats the catch? How do I approach this situation? Should I ask her if there's something up? or wait until she texts or calls me back?