Is she having sex with him?

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My wife and I have been married 8 years. Our sex life diminished and I turned to porn on the internet to avoid being unfaithful. She put spyware on he computer and saw the sites I was on. She became very angry and distant. We were fighting all the time, and she became rather fridgid in bed which she blamed on my actions. Last week she said she wanted to separate and said she had a "interest" in a person from work. She said she wanted to leave beacuse she didn't want to be unfaithful with me. We then discussed a 30 day trial period and she had to call the other guy to let him know she wouldn't be carrying through with her plans I guess. I have had a very hard time with this, had to go to the Dr's to get an antidepressant which so far has done nothing but screw up my stomach. We had sex yesterday for the first time in 1 month and a half and she seemed to get into it but jokingly said "enjoy it because you only have 29 days left." She has always been trustworthy, and she says she wanted to leave so she wouldn't be unfaithful...so is it all a smoke screen? Has she already done the other guy? Help
We have a 20 month old daughter and a house...didnt want to give up on my family
We went to marriage counseling and it was a bust because she hadn't admitted about the other guy yer. She is going to see the counselor herself this week
 
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