Is sex like riding a bike?

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Brianna

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I am the most picky person when it comes to guys, relationships and who i wish to sleep with, and it takes a guy to have a certain something about him that will allow me to even get close to him if his intentions are anything more than 'just friends' which is the case with most guys. I lost my virginity when i was 14, more for the reason that it had to go rather than i really liked the guy. He was really wanted by loads of girls so i suppose that was the reason i picked him. I don't regret it even now, i was ready at that age, developed early, i dunno, but i'm not 17, and i have barely had sex since, i think i did with the same guy at early 15, but other than that i have had a much more subdued sex life.

Now i have a guy in mind that i really really want to have sex with. I'm still ridiculously picky so i can't say about a relationship with. But he lives a long way away, i know him through family ties...

anyway, we have been talking over msn, on the phone, texting, webcams etc. Basically i think i have led him to believe that i have had sex more recently than i really have, and i don't really want to contradict him... I really can't say why. He thinks when we actually do i'm going to be amazing, am going to be able to initiate all this and it will be the best night ever. Problem is it's been so long, and although i was told i had got very good at it i'm worried if i'll have lost the nack... is sex like riding a bike? Do you forget?
 
No, sex, just like many other things in a relationship are meant to be natural things. Especially if you have had sexual intercourse with someone before; it puts you on the way high scale of experience. You don't necessarily forget- you might just need to get 'warmed' up to what you usually would do.

*Just a little something I noticed you saying a few times in your question is that you would have sex with a guy because you like him. You should be careful with that choice..."Liking" a guy...is not the same as loving a person. Just...don't lessen the value of your "gifts" and of your character is what I'm trying to get across.

Anyway, hope that helps...go safe.
 
no you never forget it comes natural the more you do it the Better you get obviously but you never forget just believe in your self you will be grate and no sex is not like riding a bike sex is more fun :D
 
no you never forget it comes natural the more you do it the Better you get obviously but you never forget just believe in your self you will be grate and no sex is not like riding a bike sex is more fun :D
 
I think that if you wont be lying on the bed like a log wrapped in the blanket you'll be fine no mater what you do. Participation is the most important thing, not experience. And one more thing, sex is an instinct, you never forget.
 
I think that if you wont be lying on the bed like a log wrapped in the blanket you'll be fine no mater what you do. Participation is the most important thing, not experience. And one more thing, sex is an instinct, you never forget.
 
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