Is sex chat cheating? I caught my wife last month and she said she would

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stop. I just caught her again.? Should I forgive HER? Can I trust HER?
We have had a long talk, and she said It would stop. Ive tryed to Sex chat with her and still she did it again.
I have been going every where with her now and don't let her use the computer with out me around. Is this wrong?
 
I wouldn't exactly call it cheating, but it is highly disrespectful. You should tell her that. You deserve to be with someone that thinks the world of you.
 
If its done once, maybe they wont do it again. But if they're stupid enough to do it again .. just be smart enough to let her go.. it ain't worth having someone wanting other people.. its just not right.. you can forgive but don't forget.. Trust her?? well, let time tell
 
Wow i cant believe their such sites as ''SEX CHAT '', like what is the world becoming too.But serious think, do you deserve someone that does that , expecially your wife? I dont think thats right, thats an intimite thing that you both do with love and shes doing that over the internet . She has no respect for herself or you.I know this must hurt, but you deserve a good wife. Just talk to her, brake her computer or webcam. So she learns or just leave her im sure you will find someone better then her. GOOD Luck and god bless*
 
Yes, it is cheating. Last month is very recent, your trust is damaged (and rightly so). It will take time for you to trust her again, and you may never trust her like you once did. She has to understand that she is wrong, that she betrayed you, she must earn your trust and forgiveness. It will take time. This is like a wound, although it's not a physical one. The wound can heal but it will always leave a scar.
 
yes its cheating, the internet is the biggest cause these days. Chatting, sex chatting etc, if shes doing that she interested in someone else. So its a gateway to actually cheating.
 
NO, I think it isn't cheating. But I think she misses something in your relationship/marriage, else she won't chat...
It's harmless if she only chats I think, but when she makes dates and goes "sex chatting" in real life.. Then yes, that's cheating.
When she actually touches an other human being for sexual purpose, then I think it's cheating!

I think you should talk to her again and ask her why she does it... Is it because she is missing something, to satisfy her needs?? To get you jealous?? To actually meet people for real sex?? And ask with a normal tone.. Like you really want to know and maybe help her do something about it... And then do something about it. Work it out together!

Else, you just call your provider and block the sex/chat sites.. But then you can't chat either ;)

Hope I helped a little!
 
That's not right. If she were with that person in real life they'd probably really have sex, and either way you have to tell her off or do something about it, not just forgive her or she'll think it's ok and do it again.
 
That's not right. If she were with that person in real life they'd probably really have sex, and either way you have to tell her off or do something about it, not just forgive her or she'll think it's ok and do it again.
 
It becomes an addiction. She will get wrapped up in someone that way and who knows from there.

See how she feels about disconnecting the internet for a while. Bet you she flys off the handle.

She is lacking something at home better find out what it is and fix it while you can before you lose her.
 
That's cheating. Just cause they didn't actually have sex doesn't mean she wasn't unfaithful.

I figure cheating is anything you wouldn't do infront of your partner. Making out, fondling, excessive flirting...sex chatting online... It'll only progress if it keeps happening. Eventually, they'll wanna meet. It's inevitable.
 
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