Is sex all he wants, or does he actually like me *10 points*?

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xilovehimx

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Okay, I have a friend that I've liked since April. About a month ago, we made out and he was holding his hands under my shirt (on my stomach) to keep warm, and I gave him a BJ. He was gonna go down on me too, but I didn't let him. He didn't tell anyone about it, and said he liked me because I was hot as hell. Also, he said we should hang out more at his house because he has internet, cable, radio, and a lock on his door.

I saw him tonight, and he kept hugging me and saying I hadn't hugged him, then called me over to share his seat and watch him play poker, then I was forced to move across the table, and he kept looking over at me, and smiling. Then he and his friend were gonna go smoke a cigarette so I said "Wait up!" and he stopped completely until I caught up with him, then he walked up to me later when we were alone and said "I'm gonna hang out with you" I said "Why?" he said "Cause I want to."
 
Seems like he was more interested in you after the BJ and all that..im going to say he just wants sex.. tell him we shouldnt be rushing these things and see how he reacts afterwards.
 
Listening to this story was like watching a quadropeligic try to win a swimming contest hahahah u both are wayyy over your heads! Neither you or this guy you like seem to know anythnig about relationships.

that laugh aside, here is my advice (and trust me itll be good, it always is):

1- yes, he likes you. yes he wants more than sex.

2- does he want sex? DUH! ALL GUYS DO! but thats not ALL he wants. he can want sex and still like you alot as a person. remember that. its something i make sure i stress to girls i hook up with. yesss i like them! Just cuz i want in their pants doesnt mean i dont! it usually means i like them more! haha

3- if you like him and wanna hang out, show it more. hug him back, flirt with him, ask him to hang out, or offer to hang with him and set a date, etc.
 
no. No. NO!!! Never give a Blow job the first time being physical. Then the fact that you didn't allow him to give you oral sex back he feels it's "What you do!" Now it's probably AAALLLLL he wants. It's definitely possible that he likes you ALOT because you all have been friends since April BUT he surely wants sex because he sees how easy it is to get it from you or as he thinks.
 
It seems to me as if this person likes you, because he always wants to be with you. When he says that you are "hot as hell" it may only be him telling the truth, or expressing his feelings. If all this person wanted from you was sex, I think that he would act differently from this. The way he is acting seems as though it's a crush. At the beginning it sounds like all he wants is sex, but towards the end is starts sounding like he's falling for you. He might have had his eyes on you, because of your beauty, and then as he slowly got to know you, he began falling in love with you. Questions like this all lack the same thing sadly, and that is information. Never is enough information given, because it's hard to remember all the times that you spent with him, or other facts that are important. But according to the facts that you gave, it seems as though he likes you, and wants to spend time with you. You can always give him a try, hang out with him and see how it goes. After a while, his true self will start to be shown to you.
 
This is what happens when you go too far too fast.

You have no idea of the guy is staying with you because you're easy, or if he likes you.
 
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