in my room, theres a bit of a wall thats behind the door thats not usable. For the last few years i have mainly used it to stick photos up. Its basically like a giant collage of photos!. Nearly all the photos are ones ive taken (photography shots of landscapes and animals).
Its basically just to make that bit of wall look a little better and i dont really have room to hang photo frames or put photos in frames anywhere.
I had a few photos developed and some included some photos that were of my boyfriend and us together. I stuck a couple up on the wall.
I also have pictures of friends, pets, family photos etc.
Now, my bf noticed this - his photos on there. He made a big deal of it - saying that im some girlfriend stalker. And that its like a shrine to him. There were like 5 photos and 3 of them had me in them! There were at least another 100 photos on that wall!
I didn't see the big deal. I had them. I had no photo albums to stick them in, so i put them on there. If my door is open you dont even see it! The door has to be shut to see the wall.
Is it wrong to put up photos of you and your boyfriend like that?
We've been together for 18 months. If it was 18 days yes, creepy, but for the time we have been together, whats a few photos?!!
what do you think
oh i should mention these photos were taken while we went on a 6 week holiday overseas together!!!
we were stuck to each other for 6 weeks straight. how 5 photos is a big deal is beyond me.
if anything he should be like 'awww' not 'ahhh'.
at first i didn't take it seriously when he said it but he went on and on and on about!. To the point i actually got fed up and took them off the wall!!!
Oh, and his mother, has a large framed photo of us together in her dining room!
thanks for the replies.
Its one thing about being teased about it but its another thing with him saying it looks like some shrine wall that the police find after someone gets murdered.
and yes thats actually how he referenced it.
Its basically just to make that bit of wall look a little better and i dont really have room to hang photo frames or put photos in frames anywhere.
I had a few photos developed and some included some photos that were of my boyfriend and us together. I stuck a couple up on the wall.
I also have pictures of friends, pets, family photos etc.
Now, my bf noticed this - his photos on there. He made a big deal of it - saying that im some girlfriend stalker. And that its like a shrine to him. There were like 5 photos and 3 of them had me in them! There were at least another 100 photos on that wall!
I didn't see the big deal. I had them. I had no photo albums to stick them in, so i put them on there. If my door is open you dont even see it! The door has to be shut to see the wall.
Is it wrong to put up photos of you and your boyfriend like that?
We've been together for 18 months. If it was 18 days yes, creepy, but for the time we have been together, whats a few photos?!!
what do you think
oh i should mention these photos were taken while we went on a 6 week holiday overseas together!!!
we were stuck to each other for 6 weeks straight. how 5 photos is a big deal is beyond me.
if anything he should be like 'awww' not 'ahhh'.
at first i didn't take it seriously when he said it but he went on and on and on about!. To the point i actually got fed up and took them off the wall!!!
Oh, and his mother, has a large framed photo of us together in her dining room!
thanks for the replies.
Its one thing about being teased about it but its another thing with him saying it looks like some shrine wall that the police find after someone gets murdered.
and yes thats actually how he referenced it.