Is Our Sex-Life Normal? Advice needed!?

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My boyfriend and I have been together for more than a year now. At first, we would have sex every day or every other day. Now, it's once per week or twice, if I'm lucky.

I'm 21 and my sex drive is high. I used to have sex twice per day with my ex. I don't demand it every single day but once per week?

He's 29, even when he gets an erection, he always controls himself. He's living with his family and he usually doesn't feel comfortable when anyone is home. With that being said, he sometimes still turns me down when no one is home. We don't do it during the weeknights because he needs his sleep to go to work in the mornings. But I also have my full-time school and part-time job!

I'm always the one who starts the heat. He's always the one who turns it off. I always kiss him first. He's absolutely not cheating on me (I know his schedule by heart, not like I'm a controlling freak, we just spend a lot of time together).

He's the dearest man that I would like to spend my entire life with. But I get tired of being all moody for being rejected. I'm young and there are many men out there who would just do anything to sleep with me. But I don't need them. I need my man and I want our relationship to work out. People usually say "sex is nothing". But I can't help but being frustrated all days. Would we end up as a no-heat married couple?

Please let me know what I can do.
 
Try not seeing each other so much. Absence makes the heart grow fonder!! If you see each other every day, skip a day and go without being together. Try to change things up a little. And really, the best thing you could do, is talk to him about it. Good luck hun!!!
 
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