for the babies that always want held at least. My little one is like that. Some may have already read and responded to my previous question. I was taken back by being told that even though I thought I wasn't doing the CIO method, some thought I was, so honestly just looking for some clarification on the matter. If you do not follow that method at all, does that mean that you always pick the baby up if it is crying? If that is indeed the case, how is it doable for babies such as mine? I'd seriously be holding her all day and night lol. I try to soothe her in other ways first, and if it still doesn't work, I then pick her up....to some this was cruel, please explain?