My ex let my husband adopt my son. I told my ex I would drop the arrears. I haven't seen my ex in over 5 years. My ex wants to hang out this week as friends. He asked me when we hang out can we go to the courthouse and sign the papers that will drop the arrears. He can't drop the arrears without my signing the papers saying i agree to drop the arrears.
I told him that I don't wanna drop them when I see him this week. I just wanna hang out. Not waste my time signing papers. My support has been suspended til he can pay anyhow and i prob wont see any money from him for months. So whats the rush on signing now?
My ex said this in our convo "i do wanna know though if you plan on signing those papers since you seem like your not going to, and no thats not the only reason i want you to come up"
"yeah well i gave you your adoption when you wanted it so if your gunna sign than you can do it when you come up. their is no point in waiting"
"like i said he's not mine anymore. if you wanna hang out and be friends thats one thing but signing off on the arrears like you said you would is something else. if you can't sign off on them than we don't need to hang out."
"no i want what you told me you would do. do sit there and tell me your gunna do something when you have no plans on it. maybe i'll just reverse the adoption since i can still do it"
"it's ok what ever, you don't wanna sign them, you don't wanna be friends and hang out thats fine, i'll go and change my number and we don't have to talk anymore".
He swears he is not trying to trick me into signing right now. I say he is trying to trick me into something. Y else is he demanding I sign them when I see him this week?
What do u think? I plan to sign the papers. I never said I wouldn't sign them. He just demands I sign them now and if I don't sign them this week then we can't be friends. I said I would sign. Just didn't say when.I dont mind signing them right now but now I am now afraid to sign cause of the way he is acting. Am I being mean by not signing right now? Or do u think he is being mean and is up to something?
I am going to sign the papers. I just dont know y it has to b right this minute. He has no job and they said he don't have to pay until he gets one so I won't see any money for months. I just didn't know y the rush to sign right this minute.
I told him that I don't wanna drop them when I see him this week. I just wanna hang out. Not waste my time signing papers. My support has been suspended til he can pay anyhow and i prob wont see any money from him for months. So whats the rush on signing now?
My ex said this in our convo "i do wanna know though if you plan on signing those papers since you seem like your not going to, and no thats not the only reason i want you to come up"
"yeah well i gave you your adoption when you wanted it so if your gunna sign than you can do it when you come up. their is no point in waiting"
"like i said he's not mine anymore. if you wanna hang out and be friends thats one thing but signing off on the arrears like you said you would is something else. if you can't sign off on them than we don't need to hang out."
"no i want what you told me you would do. do sit there and tell me your gunna do something when you have no plans on it. maybe i'll just reverse the adoption since i can still do it"
"it's ok what ever, you don't wanna sign them, you don't wanna be friends and hang out thats fine, i'll go and change my number and we don't have to talk anymore".
He swears he is not trying to trick me into signing right now. I say he is trying to trick me into something. Y else is he demanding I sign them when I see him this week?
What do u think? I plan to sign the papers. I never said I wouldn't sign them. He just demands I sign them now and if I don't sign them this week then we can't be friends. I said I would sign. Just didn't say when.I dont mind signing them right now but now I am now afraid to sign cause of the way he is acting. Am I being mean by not signing right now? Or do u think he is being mean and is up to something?
I am going to sign the papers. I just dont know y it has to b right this minute. He has no job and they said he don't have to pay until he gets one so I won't see any money for months. I just didn't know y the rush to sign right this minute.