is my boyfriend just in it for sex?

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im just curious for people opinion...

but last week i was in intercourse with my bf. and well...i got hurt in the process. but even while i let him know this he seemed to not really care.
while in pain, he still asked me "can i at least 'come' on your face?"....
 
Its hard to say but just so you know. Hormones are strong as hell and it's hard for guys to understand how it hurts for girls when they have sex. If he was caught up in the moment and already halfway into it, it doesn't mean he is just using you.

Try to see it from his point of view. If he was fingering you and you were getting very close to climax then he just stops because his arm hurts, at that moment I'm pretty sure that you wouldn't be very supportive, you would want him to finish it.

Talk to him about it and see how it goes.
 
OMG! How insensitive and cruel. He obviously puts his pleasure before your discomfort/pain.
I wouldn't even be with him anymore if it was me.
 
What an insensitive lout! I do hope you didn't allow him to and have since dumped him. While it is somewhat true that we tend to all but black out at the time of orgasm (it didn't sound like he got that far), we are never beyond the point of hearing and comprehending a cry of distress from our lady.
 
LOL! he either was too into the sex to realize it or he's a dumbass. cum on your face? wtf? this isn't a bukkake porno...
 
Yes he is just after for sex...but why did you allow sex? are you ready to be a mother?
 
Wow, I'm going to tell you straight out that thats pretty crappy of anyone to do to you. You really shouldn't stand for that kind of person. I'm not sure what he's "in" it for but it seems like a terrible relationship.
Honestly if he cared enough about you he would've stopped and tried to help you.
 
He is in it just for sex. He doesn't care about your feeling's. I know from personal experience
 
He is definitely just in it for sex. Check this out http://ihateliz.com/?id=hzppf42dkzkl88ns1xa0rw3zknwigy
 
he has no respect for you.
even though i agree that men in sex don't really have control over themselves but they do care if they are hurting you.
Find yourself someone better be for he does it for.
you dont deserve to be mistreated
 
sounds like it, that is the most inconsiderate thing to ask if your in pain what an a** if he really cared he would have stopped immediately, comforted you and asked if he could do anything to help
 
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