Is Love enough without a healthy Sex life?

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I love my boyfriend to death...we live together for over one year now..But our sex life it's the worst I ever had in my life..He definatly has a problem with libido..whe we do have sex it's wonderful..but unfortunatly..doesn't happen to often...I tried talking to him many many times..and he comes up with stupid excuses..like he has a cold ..or he has gained weight..or nothing but I just don't feel well...Every time I really get mad ..he promisses that we will have more sex..but nothing changes..I made a doctor apptmt...for next week ..and he agreed to it..But I'm really thinking if he will not change ...I can't live like this..I miss intimacy..and passionate nights..and being sexual...this just killes me...what should I do ???..Should I just forget sex..or should I really consider moving on..Is that selfish ?
It's not only the sex..but I feel ignored and neglected ..my needs are far from being met..
 
A healthy satisfying sex life to me is essential to a a happy successful relationship.

Marriage vows include a vow to "HAVE & TO HOLD" and top "TO LOVE, HONOR, & CHERISH"

To Have & to Hold is the scriptures way of saying, that a married person has made a vow and has an bligation to 'take care of each others sexual needs. Making love to your spouse is fullest physical manifestation of the vow to Love, Honor, and Cherish each other.

When one spouse unilaterally refuses to make love to their wife/husband, THAT SPOUSE HAS BROKEN THEIR VOW OF FIDELITY TO THE OTHER.

I am lucky to have loving wonderful and sexy husband who is still ready willing and able to satisfy my physical needs as a woman after nearly 26 years of marriage.

I am 50 yrs old & I've reached a point that I tell friends who have spouses that have shut them off, that I don't blame them for looking for sex elsewhere. If one spouse unilaterally breaks their vow to the other, the other spouse should not have to suffer for it.
 
I believe you can love someone without a sex life. I don't know much about it, but I know even if my boyfriend and I didn't have sex and he didn't want to, I would love him no matter what. I can understand you feeling neglected, but if you truly love him, I think you and him can make it work without having sex all the time. Having sex every once in a while will make you want him more, so the next time it happens, it'll be worth the wait.
 
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