Helloooo nurse
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My friend's new boyfriend seems to be someone who seems to be "opinionated", especially when it comes to me. I don't know if it's because he's insecure, doesn't like me, or tends to be "bored" w. life. I'm cordial w. my him but I have my cautions. I'm someone who will say "hi"/"bye" and some small talk but if I'm comfortable w. someone (a stranger/non-stranger), i will naturally have more conversation with them. I say "hi" to him w. small talk and he reciprocates but that's really it. I don't know what his problem is but he always tells me, "why are you so quiet?" and it bugs me bc it's just so ignorant and makes it feel as if I'm responsible for creating our conversation. I don't spend so much time w. them. They've been dating since late last year and I've only seen him twice. My close friend has only seen him twice yet he's not like that w her at all. I don't know if it's bc we're of the same nationality and he expects me to be a certain way? I am a friendly girl but I am reserved and I don't force that stuff if I don't feel comfortable. When I did challenge him w. that "quiet" remark, I would go to him and make small comments here and there and he didn't even say anything...
At this point, I'm sure he probably thinks I'm snobby bc i'm not "miss rainbow sunshine" He laughed at me also when someone was making fun of me. And he tends to create more tension within us girl friends by making comments like, "oh a study group on a saturday night? that's weird..." in RE to why I can't go to their get-togethers. Catty, much? Sorry to be mean but am I obligated to talk to you?
it just sucks bc i'll be seeing him at get-togethers, parties, and i know you shouldn't even bother w. stupid comments but augh, it's very annoying
At this point, I'm sure he probably thinks I'm snobby bc i'm not "miss rainbow sunshine" He laughed at me also when someone was making fun of me. And he tends to create more tension within us girl friends by making comments like, "oh a study group on a saturday night? that's weird..." in RE to why I can't go to their get-togethers. Catty, much? Sorry to be mean but am I obligated to talk to you?
it just sucks bc i'll be seeing him at get-togethers, parties, and i know you shouldn't even bother w. stupid comments but augh, it's very annoying