It all depends on the girl. If you've never cared about a girl in your life then that's pretty ignorant. But if you see the majority as sex objects that's okay as long as there are those 5% or more whom you care about as human beings. Try to expand your artistic/sensitive side through meditation, poetry, and music.
Is it wrong to see girls as "sex objects"?
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Is it wrong to always perceive, think and judge females with a purely sexual mindset?
Seeing them as "sex objects" almost and only thinking of them in terms of the specific physically/sexually attractive body features they may possess?
Or should there be more to perceiving and thinking about a female?
Thankyou for your answers.
Seeing them as "sex objects" almost and only thinking of them in terms of the specific physically/sexually attractive body features they may possess?
Or should there be more to perceiving and thinking about a female?
Thankyou for your answers.
It all depends on the girl. If you've never cared about a girl in your life then that's pretty ignorant. But if you see the majority as sex objects that's okay as long as there are those 5% or more whom you care about as human beings. Try to expand your artistic/sensitive side through meditation, poetry, and music.
Just a dude
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not really. ur just really in tune with your primal side, lol. not a bad thing at all
ELC Mystery Guru
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well, we are brought up with the ubiquitous notion that all people should be thought of purely as people.
we think the rebels to this ethereal moral law are downright weird and unsatisfactory to the human condition.
if you perceive women as such, then you are rebelling against that social conditioning that has been placed upon every strata of our society.
actually, i had similar thoughts to yours before. i was starting to become mysoginistic about women because they are just as evil as men except they are almost too good at keeping it on the down low. i started dehumanizing them and thinking that all they are are physical beings.
but, as Providence would have it, women need to be thought of as human because they are a man's other half. they are human in their own right and denying them from that privilege would mean that you are dehumanizing yourself. should there be more to perceiving people as more than a justification to your own selfish whims? i believe the jury of the world would say yeah.
we think the rebels to this ethereal moral law are downright weird and unsatisfactory to the human condition.
if you perceive women as such, then you are rebelling against that social conditioning that has been placed upon every strata of our society.
actually, i had similar thoughts to yours before. i was starting to become mysoginistic about women because they are just as evil as men except they are almost too good at keeping it on the down low. i started dehumanizing them and thinking that all they are are physical beings.
but, as Providence would have it, women need to be thought of as human because they are a man's other half. they are human in their own right and denying them from that privilege would mean that you are dehumanizing yourself. should there be more to perceiving people as more than a justification to your own selfish whims? i believe the jury of the world would say yeah.
iisaperson
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Its wrong if your looking for a relationship, but it is natural animal, and human behavior to desire to have sex to have kids.
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beechbalistic21
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Is it wrong for a girl to see a guy as a "sex object"?
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starrystarry
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Of course there's more to a female! We've got a brain and feelings and thoughts and ambitions and hopes and dreams.
Would you want a woman to think of you as just a dude to have sex with? Don't you want an emotional and intellectual connection? Don't you want to be with someone that can stimulate your senses, amaze you every day, and fulfill every area of your life?
Because looks fade, so what will you do then? You'll want someone who's on the same level you are.
Would you want a woman to think of you as just a dude to have sex with? Don't you want an emotional and intellectual connection? Don't you want to be with someone that can stimulate your senses, amaze you every day, and fulfill every area of your life?
Because looks fade, so what will you do then? You'll want someone who's on the same level you are.
Not as long as you're gentlemanly about it.
It's my belief that sometimes women who get angry at men who are attracted to them primarily for physical reasons have either been hurt by someone else, or are not the ones that perceive themselves as physically attractive.
While it is true that good, loving relationships are those between two minds, nature did make women pretty so that men would like them and put up with them when they have their ladies' times, and the emotional rollercoasters that go with that. Physical attraction has a lot to do with successful mating. The question is, how do you treat them as PEOPLE?
Ask yourself this: what if SHE saw YOU as a sex object? Before you say "YIPPEE!" let me tell you that I've been there, and it makes you feel like dirt to learn that all she wanted was a quickie, that she didn't want YOU, and regarded you as a pest once the night was over.
If you like a girl because she's got a balcony you could do Shakespeare from it's okay, just keep it to yourself until you're so well acquainted that you know she'll laugh WITH you about it.
It's my belief that sometimes women who get angry at men who are attracted to them primarily for physical reasons have either been hurt by someone else, or are not the ones that perceive themselves as physically attractive.
While it is true that good, loving relationships are those between two minds, nature did make women pretty so that men would like them and put up with them when they have their ladies' times, and the emotional rollercoasters that go with that. Physical attraction has a lot to do with successful mating. The question is, how do you treat them as PEOPLE?
Ask yourself this: what if SHE saw YOU as a sex object? Before you say "YIPPEE!" let me tell you that I've been there, and it makes you feel like dirt to learn that all she wanted was a quickie, that she didn't want YOU, and regarded you as a pest once the night was over.
If you like a girl because she's got a balcony you could do Shakespeare from it's okay, just keep it to yourself until you're so well acquainted that you know she'll laugh WITH you about it.
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I show dogs and nobody at dog shows thinks this. Infact 90% of guys who show are gay. The other %10 are too busy grooming their dogs to notice girls.
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ur worst nitmar
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It is very natural 2 feel that way but i think that it is very bad 2. It is like using girls.
Not as long as you're gentlemanly about it.
It's my belief that sometimes women who get angry at men who are attracted to them primarily for physical reasons have either been hurt by someone else, or are not the ones that perceive themselves as physically attractive.
While it is true that good, loving relationships are those between two minds, nature did make women pretty so that men would like them and put up with them when they have their ladies' times, and the emotional rollercoasters that go with that. Physical attraction has a lot to do with successful mating. The question is, how do you treat them as PEOPLE?
Ask yourself this: what if SHE saw YOU as a sex object? Before you say "YIPPEE!" let me tell you that I've been there, and it makes you feel like dirt to learn that all she wanted was a quickie, that she didn't want YOU, and regarded you as a pest once the night was over.
If you like a girl because she's got a balcony you could do Shakespeare from it's okay, just keep it to yourself until you're so well acquainted that you know she'll laugh WITH you about it.
It's my belief that sometimes women who get angry at men who are attracted to them primarily for physical reasons have either been hurt by someone else, or are not the ones that perceive themselves as physically attractive.
While it is true that good, loving relationships are those between two minds, nature did make women pretty so that men would like them and put up with them when they have their ladies' times, and the emotional rollercoasters that go with that. Physical attraction has a lot to do with successful mating. The question is, how do you treat them as PEOPLE?
Ask yourself this: what if SHE saw YOU as a sex object? Before you say "YIPPEE!" let me tell you that I've been there, and it makes you feel like dirt to learn that all she wanted was a quickie, that she didn't want YOU, and regarded you as a pest once the night was over.
If you like a girl because she's got a balcony you could do Shakespeare from it's okay, just keep it to yourself until you're so well acquainted that you know she'll laugh WITH you about it.
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riskpuppy
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That is such wrong thinking! Most girls that you would want to date would hate that kind of thinking.
You should look at her attitude, mind, values, etc.
LOOK PAST APPEARANCES.
If you check out some other questions, girls are desperate for guys who will look past appearances!
You should look at her attitude, mind, values, etc.
LOOK PAST APPEARANCES.
If you check out some other questions, girls are desperate for guys who will look past appearances!
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Catheryne S
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Women arnt just sex objects, that is very wrong, there is a beauty behind the body not just that you want us just to make love but without the love part right? thats not fair. If everyone thought that, women would have no rights and we woud be passed along man after man as they had sex with us. Think about it. Not good. Love women for their personality, their flair, there laugh, Something like that. Im not saying its wrong to say a women is physically attractive becasue i find men physcially attractive, but dont see us as just something to have sex with, you know? I guess it's totally fine to want to have sex, but definatly not if your just doing it and if you dont love them or care for them in someway, dont do it just for the sex, do it for the way the women is deep down.
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Courtney:D
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Actually, I honestly don't.
I mean, sure, I like to be respected and what not, but hey.
Your hormones are...guyish.
So, let them be free.
Look at me how ever you want, doesn't matter to me.
I mean, sure, I like to be respected and what not, but hey.
Your hormones are...guyish.
So, let them be free.
Look at me how ever you want, doesn't matter to me.