Is it wrong to not give her the bicycle now?

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Anon

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When I found out i got pregnant I offered my moped and bicycle (for free) to a couple of co-workers that I thought were my friends.

The one who took the moped left the company and called me every day and was really nice and sweet until I handed over the registration papers. She said her and her boyfriend would buy us a stroller for the baby as thanks. I never heard from her again. In fact, when i called her, I could tell she was no longer interested in talking to me. This was a week after giving her the papers. Its now been a month and nothing.

The second coworker who wants the bicycle is now constantly bugging me for it. But she seems like the other one - super friendly and fake when she comes and asks for it then basically ignores me the rest of the day. I don't want to be used again.

Now I didn't offer these girls these things to make friends. They are black single mothers and I was trying to help them out but their behaviour sickens me now. I would rather sell the bike to someone else and buy the stroller that i'm obviously not getting. I'm not rich nor am I white, I am ethnic just not black so don't even try to call me racist - I wish I sold the moped and took the cash now. Is it wrong to try and sell the bike even though I told this girl I would give it to her?
 
Now you are learning the way of some people. Nice until you turn them down, want and give me, give me presents and when you fail on deliver bug you until you get exasperated. People can have two-sided personalities working at the same time. Nice and sweet, and turn on you in a heart beat. Do what you want and offer no explanation except the bike is gone. (money in your bank for the stroller) Don't let her into your mind set on getting burned by the other co-worker. Some people need to get less of an attitude in life. Not to expect the world owes them something......
 
even if she needs it.. u need the money too. so u really should sell it and buy the stroller.

she probably wont appreciate it and just disappear. and if she asks... tell her the truth. its not like ur sfraid of her or u have to deal with her.

dont care for people who dont appreciate it.

and charity begins at home. so u wont be doing anything wrong by selling the bike.

u can explain the situation to her and say if she can give u a stroller then she can have the bike. and this time take the stroller first.
 
No it is not wrong. The other co-worker ripped you off and that was wrong. If you feel like this one will do the same, then sell it to someone else and don't give it to her.
 
No I didn't think once that you were racist. I am a black Haitian female. Now I know how we black people can get. If they see someone that is very nice and willing to give them anything with no cost in volved then their going for it. Me myself was never like that. it's just some ghetto fab girls I seen do this to others. I could of told you that you would not hear from that other girl she got what she wanted. The only reason why that other girl is asking you for that bike is because she probably spoke to that other girl who took the moped believe me I know these things. Please don't be a user one your expecting a baby and don't need to be stressed over people like this who wont care if you get sick or something. Stick with people who love you and keep in mind that your at work to do just that WORK!!! And not make friends. Always watch who wants tp be friends they may be after something black or white.

Hope you have a beautiful and healthy baby!! Please just sell the bike if you can and save that cash for a rainy day mama!!
 
Tell'em to F off, sell the bike to cover the cost of things you need and try to learn from your mistakes
 
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