Is it wrong to have sexual desires for my friend?

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David M

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I have very strong sexual desires for my friend. She is really pretty and a really cool person. I have known her for many years, but I am starting to act weird around her. I really don't want to lose her as a friend, but I'm not sure what to do anymore.
 
You haven't really explained this very well. I'm wondering why you think it's wrong to fancy someone? Also, why would you lose her if she is such a good friend?
 
It is wrong - she is just a friend --- a friend. Keep it that way. If you are interested in asking her out - then do so. But never act on those sexual desires. It's very misleading. Save those desires for marriage :-) If that scared you, it should. Dating should be exclusively for a potential life-time partner. Don't play stupid games with girls, ain't worth it.
 
Ask her, but if she is your good friend and has been your good friend since childhood I am sure that is how she sees you and nothing more. All you can do is tell her what you feel and let her decide. If she says no, then keep on being her friend.
 
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