Is it wrong for my husband to get a lap dance for his birthday?

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Well now whats good for the Goose is good for the Gander.
So hows about while he's out celebrating with Dick Head Dad, you go celebrate at the male stripper bar, (don't have a male stripper bar?)that'ss even better, get a few of the girls to chip in and hire one to come to the house and do lap dances for you)
As a parent Idon'tt get why any parent would intentionally give their child alcohol and drunken them. Why, since their child is married, they
would insist on creating behavior that would cause serious problems between the husband and wife.
Who gives a flying F-- - K about the "Tradition " or who else Dick Head Dad has provided these same services for. And Screw your Meddling Mutha n law for sticking her 2 cents in. Sounds to me that DHDad is the one who really wants the lap dance. How does he know its so great? All he's doing is setting the pace for it to maybe be a want to return to thing.
This is just shit yodon'tnt do wheyou'rere married.
Better yet, whdon'tnt you get all fixed up and be the lap dancer and totally divert, the interest? Maybe even in front of Mom and Dad. And let DHDad pay for it?Perhaps you could return the sentiment and on Mutha n Laws B-Day , you start a tradition and take her out for a lap dance.
Until his parents show respect for your marriage, make the visits or amount of time on the phone , close to nothing as can be. You can do this without being obvious. When they figure out why they see less and less of their son and you. Then and only then would I trust my husband around them.
 
He is turning 21 in November and his step dad wants to take him to the bar and get him a lap dance. They have had this planned for a long time, and its sort of a tradition. I just think its wrong, because we're married, and in my eyes its cheating.

Who wants another girl on their man like that, turning him on, when he is drunk, and me not even there? I think its wrong, and disrespect towards me.

But his mom is irritated that I dont ant him to. She says he only turns 21 once, and that his step dad does that with all the guys in the family. His family has way different morals then how I was raised though..

Thoughts? Dont be snotty though. I just want to know if I should be upset, or if I am over reacting.
 
It's wrong if you say it's wrong. Don't let anyone tell you how you should feel about your husband having a lap dance by another woman. I wouldn't be comfortable with this either, and if his MIL had a problem with the way I felt, then she can just kiss my a**! This is your marriage, not hers. If she likes her hubby getting lap dances by woman that for an extra couple bucks would probably throw in a BJ, than that's her and her marriage! You tell your husband your not cool with it, and go from there!
 
If he can't see that it is disrespectful to you, or have the balls to tell his step father that it is not appropriate than he is a child, not a husband.
Tell him for your next birthday your going to get a lap dance from a hard body stripper with a big pole. Tell him your going to love when he slaps you in the face with it....
 
It's probably not a good idea, and I guess I can see why it would bother you but for you to say it is cheating is a little extreme. I don't really know what else to say.
 
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