My advice is if you want to wait until marriage then sleeping in the same bed might not be the best idea. Because at the end of the day he is a man and your a woman. If you both have strong feelings for each other then in the back of both of your minds your would like to solidify your love for one another by having sex. You should tell him that you love him and respect him too much to jeopardize your vow of abstinence and that we should not sleep in the same bed together any more.
