Is it wrong for men and women to sleep in the same bed without having sex?

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my boyfriend spent the night with me at my dorm and we slept in the same bed, but we didnt have sex, and i was kind of feeling guilty even though we didnt do anything, is that wrong or am I ok? ( I am waiting to have sex until marriage and so is he) we didnt really sleep, we just talked and dosed off every now and then...
i also am afraid that if my parents found out that I have done this, then they will be so angry with me and him, they are very over protective and dont even like the idea of me being in a room alone with a guy, boyfriend or not, so i am taking their feelings into consideration also, they raised me to have good morals and i guess in the back of my mind i think what i have done is wrong i guess...
 
Nope, there is nothing wrong with that.
I personally even slept in the same bed with my guy friends and of course nothing happened.
This is absolutely normal:)
Hope this helps
 
Of course it isn't wrong
It's actually very mature and a great decision to decide to wait, if there would be anything to feel guilty about it would be after you have sex, not if you don't have it.
You did nothing wrong except talk to your boyfriend and fall asleep.
 
i dont think so! you shouldnt feeel bad at all. its the same as falling asleep on a couch or the floor or anywhere with your boyfriend.
 
theres nothing wrong with that =)
its great your waiting for marriage
and i find it really stupid when people think that just because your living with your boyfriend or something that definatley means your no longer a virgin.
dont feel guilty though, especially if you both have decided to wait =)
 
no you are ok. i may only be 13 but i am waiting till marriage too. people may think i am weird but that is just who i am.
 
sex is inserting his penis into ur vagina. If u did that while sleeping then yes u did soomething wrong. lol jk u didnt do anything wrong. dont sweat it!
 
well, i think it's all about self control. it's great that you're waiting for marriage =) good for you girl! i am too. there's nothing wrong with sleeping in the same bed as your boyfriend as long as you guys don't end up "doing it" on impulse. cuddling is fine, but don't get carried away. i've slept in the same bed as my guy friends - particularly 2 that i'm close with. and the reason we can do that is actually because we don't see each other in that sexual way. we're just really good friends.
 
it's not wrong...it's called cuddling...that's what my boyfriend and i do until i am ready to have sex with him.
 
Actually, It's extremly normal. If you're waiting till marriage, go ahead [So am I!] But if you think you should do it because he's in your bed, That's a little peculiar. I think it's cute what you guys DIDN'T DO!!!!
I think I'll do that. You are so cool [4 reals!!!!!!!!!!]
 
I think you did the right thing of not to have sex before marrage and it's not wrong to sleep (guy with girl) it's actually normal to do that.
 
You have to be real careful, you may not plan to have sex, but you are one temptation away. What seems ok may lead into something else.
 
yeah thats fine. its called personal space, sleeping in the same bed as your boyfriend shouldnt make you automatically think that you have to have sex with him, me and my boyfriend do this all the time. we sleep in the same bed and just talk for hours and cuddle n kiss. theres absolutely nothing wrong with it and i think its great that your both saving yourself for marriage. plus the fact that by staying up all night and talking your spending more quality time together, i dont see the harm in that.
 
noo that is totally perfect u dont have to have sex just cus ur sleepin
i mean people say that"i slept with him" but its not always sex
 
Me and my boyfriend do the exact same thing. I think it would only be hard if you guys weren't waiting, or if you were but he didn't necessarily want to, then that'd be very tempting and hard to suppress.
 
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