Is it weird to date a much older person?

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My boyfriend is 16 years old than I am, so whenever we're in public together (dining, movies, etc), I feel a bit uncomfortable and a little "ashamed" to be honest.

I do love him though.

Anyone here dating someone older? And how do you feel about it?
 
you have to look at the distance is it from 18 to 34 or younger or say 25 to 41 sixteen years is not much at all when the younger is in their twenties.... Love is love and as long as you are close and it feels real... then gitter done.. I do wish you real love no matter the age... Grant M in Pennsylvania
 
Hi John.

As a general practice people date people in a similar age bracket.
Its sort of like the right thing to do. Its morally correct.

Yet its interesting to see how the very same people who will look down on you will toss morals out the window when its suitable for them to do so.
And they all do it. Every single one of them ignores morals if there is something in it for them.


If you love each other, I say do it. To hell with the people pointing......

Give him a big wet kiss and a hug from me would you. XOX
 
I have been there and sadly we broke up because of the huge pressure she got from her "friends" and family.
That was some years ago and I saw her again in a bar just 2 weeks ago.
We hugged and chatted, I regret losing her.
I dont know how old you are?
If your 16 and he is 32 then it could be a problem as you mature.
 
ur not ready 4 the relationship, get out before u hurt this person....ashamed? that how u feel when ur tapping that a*s?.........umm?
 
First of all he should know better than to date someone as young as you, he is taking advantage of you, he know all the right things to say and do to keep using you. You get pregnant you are going to be throw to the gutter, he will not want anything to do with you again. He will be out looking for another 16 years old that he does not have the resposibilites for, he is just using you.
 
No there is nothing wrong with that. Some people are just attracted to older men and if that's you then don't worry about what other people think because its not them...its you.
 
I like older guys the George Clooney type of guys, you should not be ashamed unless they ask is this your dad, then you know you are dating too old. It's all a thing of the mind, don't let it bother you.
 
I have been on the other end of this many times. My last boyfriend was 20 years younger and I'm currently seeing someone who's 34 years younger. In both cases, these young men came to me and asked me out first.
Yes, it's a little strange. I learn new things all the time that I wouldn't have learned just keeping company with people my own age. All the men my own age seem to be partnered, so that leaves me with the younger ones that want me.
 
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