is it weird to care about people fast ?

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when i meet a new nice girl that i genuinely like, I notice that I care for them quickly and treat them as if they were my lady before that even gets there

should I be more reserved and hold the caring back, or just do it ??
 
depends on the girl, but most hot girls just want a dick to treat them wrong but satisfy them sexually

cute girls that want a nice guy are rare, but exist.
 
you have to guard your own feelings just so you dont get hurt, but there is no problems when a guy wants to treat a girl right :)
but be careful that all girls might assume you like them in particular because of the caring way that you naturally are, so it might become problematic haha but i think your going to be fine hun
 
Thats where they get the term wearing your heart on your sleeve. You should be careful who you let that close into your life. They need to earn it by proving themselves to you as a good friend that you can count on them. Otherwise you will get hurt a lot and possibly push people away making them feel uncomfortable.
 
I think you're caring enough to not be too caring at first, you know? Like, hold back a little. Don't touch too much.
This guy once offered to come over in the morning and cook my friend breakfast, shortly after meeting her. He is genuinely a sweet, well-meaning person, but that really creeped her out. And I know that's just one example, so perhaps you wouldn't do something like that, but still...
It's alright to care, that's awesome! Just be careful how you express it, or you could scare the girl off. I know I bolt when a guy starts getting too serious/caring too soon. If the girl doesn't feel like she can match your affection, she might feel like there is an imbalance in the relationship and no longer feel good about the bond, like she is insufficient for not caring as much.

But in any case, you should treat every girl like a lady. It's good to be chivalrous.
If you treat a girl as if she were your lady before she technically is, I'd say that's not really a big deal. I mean, like buying her lunch or picking her up or running errands for her or whatever. That's not weird, that's just sweet... and it's an awesome way to say: Hey, I like you enough to make these little sacrifices. I want to date you.

So, go ahead and be yourself. The only thing you have to watch it with the poetry/I love you's and too much touching.

Good luck! :D
 
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