Is it weird to be in love with someone you've never met in real life?

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I met this girl two years ago on VMTV (virtual game on MTV, it was stupid but I was bored)... I started the game off and she was right there in a group talking to people so I got in there and talked with them. Eventually we walked around on the game and talked together. We eventually exchanged names (firsts only), where we lived (states), and our AIM addresses. Soon to follow were phone numbers, last names, cities, etc. I've been on web cam with this beautiful girl many times, and we talk on the phone for hours on end... and she's the only girl I've ever been able to talk to without any awkward silences.

About a year and a few months ago, she said that she loved me and although I didn't really feel it then, I started to feel it later on. Around last summer I began to really have feelings for her, and now, two years after meeting her, we are in love with each other. If I can't get in touch with her for only one day, she gets angry at me but we make up and talk on the phone.

I know her almost entirely (all we do is talk, of course... but it's always good to have a bit of mystery ;D), and I know a lot of her friends (she introduced me to them on AIM). She's a very cute and gorgeous girl... I just can't ever stop thinking about how much I love her. And she says she does the same, she'll even text or call me during the day (sometimes even during school hours) just to tell me that she loves me.

We thought it through, we both thought it was weird that we had never met in real life, but were in love. But we overcame that, and vowed to live together one day... and now I want to more than ever.

We never fight - she has mood swings every once in a while (PMS I'm guessing), but we have never had bad arguments.

I know this sounds like a weird long-distance relationship, but I have loved this girl for quite a long time now, and the feeling has never left me. It was by a very small chance that I met her (if I wasn't bored enough to download that game that day, I wouldn't have), and by every standard we are a perfect match.

She is the reason why I am alive today, I seriously contemplated suicide a few times during a deep depression, but her love brought me out of it. She was also in a depression, and I believe our combined love saved the both of us.

I'd love to go on and on about our relationship... even how I think she may be my soul mate I've been searching for, but I'm just asking for an opinion here.

Thank you in advance!
PS:

She is coming to myrtle beach on vacation the same time I am, so I will actually get to meet her for the very first time in a little over a week!
PS:

She is coming to myrtle beach on vacation the same time I am, so I will actually get to meet her for the very first time in a little over a week!
Thank you for your answers..

And a lot of girls I've dated tell me I'm different... I really go after relationships just to feel loved, I never go after sex. That just comes with the relationship after a while. I wouldn't care if me and her didn't have it till 2 years into living together, I just want to be with her.
 
it is possible that you love her, but it is also possible that you are in love with the idea of her and the idea of finding someone who is perfect for you, just remember that people change and you can change to. its difficult to even know what your asking here...i think subconsciously you want someone to tell you your doing the right think and everything is going to work out how you want it to because you are worried that it might not all it seems to be. you say you know her entirely but i don't think you can ever know someone entirely, i think you should just keep your wits about you because by the sounds of things its already quite serious if shes getting annoyed by you not ringing her and things like that. but if you want something go and get it.
i wish you all the best :)
 
No it's not weird, you have actually fallen in love with her as a person, not in a sexual way, that is so rare these days. I wish you well with her. Hope she is as beautiful in person.

Just read your additional details, you are so sweet I wish I was lucky enough to meet someone like you. I hope she appreciates you.
 
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