is it weird that im reacting like this?

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my best friends boyfriend broke up with her and immediately started going out with another girl. is it strange that im feeling really strong feelings of anger at him and then feeling bad about feeling that way towards him? i was his friend but i started ignoring him because i was so mad at him. it was so sudden.
 
no its probably normal to feel angry at him because hes hurt your friend but then at the sme time you feel that its not your place to feel angry at him because its up to him who hes with and who he stays with.. My best mates gf cheated on him and my natural reaction was to stranlge her and i felt this way coz i new she hurt my mate haha. however i didnt ever say or do anything because it wasnt my place to do s it was their relationship so let them resolve it on their own
 
I don't think it's weird at all. I'd be really pissed at him too. But if you were his friend then you are gonna feel a little bad about it. It's completely normal in my opinion. (:


Good luck!
 
It depends on the terms of their break up. Did he really hurt your friend? If so that would explain your anger. But then he's your friend too so you feel guilty. You can try and patch things up with him, but to me it seems like you've already shown where your loyalties lie.
 
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