I'm 16 and I'm bisexual, or at least I think I am. I'll try my best to explain even though it may get a little weird.
I've been attracted to girls and guys since the 6th grade. That's when I had my first real crush on a girl. I didn't have a crush on guys back then; I just thought some of them were cute. It's weird because I'm more sexually attracted to guys, but I'm more emotionally attracted to girls. For example, if had the opportunity to sleep with a cute girl, I would only do it if I really liked her. Although if it were a guy, I would most likely do it. XD And it's much easier for me to find a guy attractive than a girl. I have to really like a girl and get to know her, and then she starts to look more and more attractive to me, I know, it's weird. When I masturbate, 90% of the time it's to men.
On the other hand, I've only had relationships with girls. I see them more as relationship material. When I see myself in the future, I'm married to a wife and have kids. Every time I think about ending up with a guy, it seems more like a fantasy, until recently. On the last week of school I started talking to this guy in my gym class. At first I thought he was a little odd. But the more I talked to him, the more attractive he became. Not just physically, but relationship wise also. I kinda wanted to ask him out on a date........but I didn't because he's straight and I'm still in the closet.
My question is, can someone be bisexual with such dual preferences?
I've been attracted to girls and guys since the 6th grade. That's when I had my first real crush on a girl. I didn't have a crush on guys back then; I just thought some of them were cute. It's weird because I'm more sexually attracted to guys, but I'm more emotionally attracted to girls. For example, if had the opportunity to sleep with a cute girl, I would only do it if I really liked her. Although if it were a guy, I would most likely do it. XD And it's much easier for me to find a guy attractive than a girl. I have to really like a girl and get to know her, and then she starts to look more and more attractive to me, I know, it's weird. When I masturbate, 90% of the time it's to men.
On the other hand, I've only had relationships with girls. I see them more as relationship material. When I see myself in the future, I'm married to a wife and have kids. Every time I think about ending up with a guy, it seems more like a fantasy, until recently. On the last week of school I started talking to this guy in my gym class. At first I thought he was a little odd. But the more I talked to him, the more attractive he became. Not just physically, but relationship wise also. I kinda wanted to ask him out on a date........but I didn't because he's straight and I'm still in the closet.
My question is, can someone be bisexual with such dual preferences?