Is it weird that I don't think like this?

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I was watching an episode of 'entourage' with my boyfriend and turtle was talking about imagining what it would be like to sleep with this girl at his school and the guys were talking about how thats normal and ok as long as he doesn't do it cause he has a girlfriend. and I get that its normal for people in a relationship to sometimes wonder about other people, (cause you can get that omg i'm trapped feeling sometimes), but I don't think about other people in any sense of the word other than they are around. I don't wonder what it would be like to date someone else or sleep with someone else. am i weird or is it more of a guy thing to think about other peoples...
 
i don't wonder either i think its just a personality related thing not necessarily a girl/guy thing. i think if the person is content they're less likely to think about other ppl in that way
 
i don't wonder either i think its just a personality related thing not necessarily a girl/guy thing. i think if the person is content they're less likely to think about other ppl in that way
 
Maybe you found the person you want to be with. Maybe you are so happy that you don't need to find anyone else. :D
 
Ummm, actually, strange as it may seem, girls go through thinking about dating or having sexual fantasies about other people even when they're in relationships, not all of them do, but majority and yes it is more of a guy thing, don't worry about it, its like a guy looking at porn mag while having a girlfriend, obviously they're gonna get off and imagine that they screwing the girl in the porn mag, all i can say is chill haha.
 
how does your boyfriend talk to a turtle? iS HE INSANE? frankly if all he is thinking about is sex its ok, but too imagine a full blown relationship is kinda imaginative
 
I don't think it's weird to look at others as attractive, or sexually arousing. We're only human, and our biology pretty much encourages this type of thought.

I don't think anybody should be engaged in a relationship if they get any "OMG I'm trapped" feelings. That seems to be more concerning, in my opinion, simply because it could actually drive somebody to act on their thoughts about others if they feel trapped.

Overall, I wouldn't really be worried about it. You may have a less heightened sex drive, or simply not be surrounded by people who seem attractive to you. It's nothing to be too concerned about. Would you want somebody to think you were weird if you had unexplained feelings of attraction for somebody you weren't dating? It's not like the artificial label of being a couple can "turn off" your likes/dislikes, right?

I don't think you're weird. No worries :)
 
Well its normal when they are not sold out to you.
He may like you but he is not sold out to you , when he looks at others .
This man i would watch.And i would never trust him after that statement.
Watch him he has just told on his self.
 
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