Is it weird of me to want a kid? Im 21...?

Nick

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For some reason I want a kid really badly. I know I have to finish up school and get a better job first but I keep telling myself that I can make it work now because I see hella people around me having kids...Is it weird that I'm a dude and want a kid this young? Also I don't even care if the kid is mine I just want to be a father figure...I would totally date a girl who already has a kid also I'm not afraid to tackle it...I know most people are like STAY AWAY lol but I'm a laid back person and already got all my partying out in high school and after haha any advice or input would be helpful!? :)
Yeah every chance I get I babysit my niece and nephews but they live in WA and Im in Cali...Also when I babysit Im afraid to really bond with the kid because its not my own and Im not taking care of it everyday like if I was with someone...I dunno I just have the DAD Gene hardcore I guess.
I had a g/f of 4 years but we just ended like 2 months ago so any chance of having a kid with a g/f is pretty far away lol not to mention I have really strange standards for women...Not really high but just have to meet hella criteria I guess lol
 
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