Is it unnatural to not feel pleasure when mastubating?

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Kimmy M

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Okay, I'm a virgin 15 year old girl and I masturbate. But rarely do I ever focus attention on anything but my clitoris. I found though, that whenever I would finger myself or use any sort of toy I never felt anything sensual. Two of my friends have recently started having sex with their boyfriends and they were describing how is so much different than masturbating, but it is the same when he fingers her. So after that I put it to the test. When i masturbated I fingered myself but it felt painful rather than good. I always thought that maybe when I lost my virginity it would start feeling good. But since I heard my friends telling me about how that didnt happen, I'm wondering if somethings wrong. Does that mean that when I do have sex it wont be pleasurable?
 
I've never fingered myself, but when my guy friend fingered me, it hurt also. It didn't feel good. I've heard that very little girls can feel pleasure just from vaginal simulation. I'm 16 and a virgin also so I wouldn't know how it will feel during sex.
 
It's not unnatural at all. Most girls feel that way, actually. There are actually no nerve endings inside you (which is good for child birth and all). I'm the same way. It's probably painful because you're tight and because of your hymen. It's not unnatural at all because there aren't any nerve endings there, so you can't feel anything (let along anything pleasurable) even if you try. Also, you can't reach the g-spot (because you're attached to your body), but another person can reach the g spot (that's why your friends say it feels good).Just focus on your clitoris, that's where all the nerve endings are.
 
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