Women use the word love very "liberally"
As in... "I just love these shoes." Or. "I absolutely love Daxter, he's such a sweety." Neither of these loves will get you lucky if you know what i mean.
However, the fact that you are a cook(as was i) is a good thing. But if what you mean by love is something a woman cannot do without in a man. Your 20% right.
You still have to be. Good looking(but not too good looking, they'll think your gay).
Be masculine(but not too much).
Be a champion in bed(don't be fooled they love sex)
Be rich. The filthier the better