Is it true love or jail talk?

[Ebony Goddess]

I fell in love with some one last year. We always had a lot of fun together and we had a lot in common. I thought we shared a special bond. However, this man disappeared on me and broke my heart. He returned a few weeks later and we got back together. I asked him a couple of times if he loved me, but he never said that he did. He got arrested in November for a hit and run incident and some other traffic violations and he's been there ever since. He wrote me a letter admitting he'd been lying to me about his profession and some other things and asked me to forgive me. His next letter starts talking about how much he loves me and how sorry he is. He's even at the point of talking marriage. I love him and I really want to believe him, but I can't help but wonder if this is all a bunch of BS. I love this man deeply, but I'm not sure if I trust him anymore. Do I wait for him, or move on?

 

[BRooKε☮]

I'd believe it but I'd also be on the lookout for his BS.
He probably did love you but was uncomfortable tell you by saying it...sometimes people would rather say things without actually saying it. You get it?
Like it would be easier for him to write it down the to actually say it.

But then when people are in tight spots they realize how much they've missed what their used to.

You never know.

Think about what I said though.

Good luck.


Oh and I'd still love him but have fun with other guys and when he got out of jail we'd pick up where we left off...what can he do for you in jail?
I know he probably wants someone who would be there for him but what are you supposed to do when the closest person you have is incarcenated? Be bored, lonely and depressed....no. Have fun.

Good luck, again.

 

[ninjax]

You know him best, if you think he suddenly changed his feelings then believe it. But be aware that he is in jail and that he might just be reaching out for you to have some hope in his life. Either way, you are something to him for him to think about you in his time of need.