Is the time for discussing it immediate? If you haven't talked it over by a certain point - like saying why it happened, if it happend for no clear reason - then does there become a point at which it's irrelevant?
Part of me thinks eventually if enough time goes past I won't erally care. But another part of me thinks it will always eat away at me if I don't know why my first serious relationship ended.
He's finally offered to talk more, a month on from the break up. I'd initially wanted to but then just felt so stupid wanting to talk about it now so I gave up.
Should I ask him to talk about it now? Or should I wait a few weeks more and then talk about it when it might be clearer more logical and less hurtful? Or would it be too late by then?
BTW, long relationship so it's not like discussing a 6 month relationship or something
Part of me thinks eventually if enough time goes past I won't erally care. But another part of me thinks it will always eat away at me if I don't know why my first serious relationship ended.
He's finally offered to talk more, a month on from the break up. I'd initially wanted to but then just felt so stupid wanting to talk about it now so I gave up.
Should I ask him to talk about it now? Or should I wait a few weeks more and then talk about it when it might be clearer more logical and less hurtful? Or would it be too late by then?
BTW, long relationship so it's not like discussing a 6 month relationship or something