Is it so weird and wrong to want a future husband who's a virgin?

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Jessica

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I've always dreamed about marrying a husband that's a virgin.
I don't ever want to marry a non-virgin because it feels as if I'm taking someone else's TRASH and something already USED. It may not be true that they throw themselves at other people because they're desperate for sex, but it feels as if they're not taking care of their body by making it stained.
I don't want to offend any non-virgins out there, because this is just my thinking; everyone has their own different ways of thinking and this just happens to be mine.

A few days ago, I talked about this topic with my mother. She outlined the basics: there are no virgin guys out there; you're most likely bound to marry a non-virgin because finding a guy who's a virgin is probably 1 in a million. She thought I was weird and a little psycho that something as little as my future lover not being a virgin is stopping me from marrying him. I'm so confused right now.

Is it wrong for me to think like this? My PRIDE keeps on making my think this way and I know that pride isn't DEFINITELY not something that should keep someone from love. I know that this is prone to happen in the future because everyone eventually gets married right?

Please help me. :(
 
There is nothing wrong with marrying a virgin... just don't expect him to be good in that sack until you help him learn... There are lots of virgins out there....
 
No the idea is not weird it happens everywhere.
You should stop being weird and thinking all these weird thoughts about it. You could really creep someone out with this virgin stuff and you.
Its possible if you are a virgin and find a virgin to marry. Sexy is appealing but not all guys are into the pressure start looking now and start learning the ways to find one. Look up virgin dating online. Just hope you find a real and honest one.Just think of it as a personal hobby until you find the right person and I guarantee you're not the only one who thinks this and is looking for it. Find the groups and start talking about and don't let your mom bring you down on one of your dreams because she is not everyone and everything and the virgin.
This just could be your fate in life and don't give up. At least its not has hard as getting rich or famous. Its out there.....
 
hopefully you are a virgin too to want that its not considered trash to b with a non virgin,maybe a guy was a virgin then had his heart ripped apart and is now looking for someone togive his life to
 
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