is it right for a man to walk out on his wife?

Janet

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my husband and i have not lived together for years now, every time we try to live together he walks out on me, and it has always been that he doesn't want to take responsibility on his half of the bills. so i moved far away and then came back 8 months later, because he asked me to and said things will change. things never did change in the couple of weeks that i came back, including him still living with his mama. well i got caught up in a situation where i had to take over guardianship for 3 little one's that are of no relation to us. and now he wants to blame our situation on these kids as to why he walked out on me again. he says it a financial burden on him, although he hasn't spent 1 penny on them and only stayed at my house for 3 days and says he can't take it he's to old for this, and wants me to get rid of the kids. i think i should just let him go, what do you think???
 
i think that he is a big jerk. i don't think that it is the financial stuff that he says is a burden, i think that it is him being immature and irresponsible. i don't think you should hav evr gotten back with him. aftr the first time, if things don't change, then they probably won't evr change. i would hav forgotten about him the first time that he left you.
 
If he chooses to not be with you and take care of his kids, that is OK. We can never force anyone to love. The only thing to be forced is to support the kids.
 
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