...had a fling with? I met this guy. We dated for a month before he got deployed. I completely opened up to him and let him in because I have never been jaded or done wrong to have any sort of guard up. I am head over heels about him and really care. He came back from deployment after a month, called me, we hooked up, but then told me that he isn't ready for a relationship or anything. Since that night we have been every status...bf and gf...dating...friends with benefits...friends...He told me he is attracted to me physically and mentally but he just isn't ready for anything more. His friends all love me and even say that he really does like me but he's weird because his last gf cheated and shit. ANYWAYS...I really like this dude a lot. I feel so much chemistry with him. But should I tell him I can't be his friend because I feel all this heartache and ill never get over him? Or should I be his friend and take what I can get? Or should I just give him the cold shoulder and drop him? He's 24 and im 20 btw.
Is it possible to stay friends with a guy that I have fallen for that I previously...
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